Wade Arnold Blog
6 Reasons Wives Should Initiate Sex
When it comes to marriage, intimacy plays a significant role in strengthening the bond between husbands and wives. But let’s be real—sometimes the dynamic of who initiates can get a little routine. What if we flip the script? What if wives took the lead more often when it comes to intimacy? This shift can do wonders for your marriage in ways that go far beyond the bedroom. Let's explore some of the benefits of wives initiating sex with their husbands and how it can breathe fresh life into your relationship.
Can Christians Have Oral Sex?
The question of whether the Bible speaks specifically about oral sex is one that comes up frequently, especially as couples seek to understand how to live holy lives within the context of marriage. While the Bible doesn’t directly mention oral sex, there are principles throughout Scripture that can guide Christians in making decisions about sexual intimacy in their marriage.
Delayed Orgasm in Men
As men get older, it’s not unusual to notice changes in how their bodies respond during intimate moments. One such change is taking longer to climax. This can be confusing or even worrying at times, but it’s a completely normal part of aging for many men. Understanding why this happens can help ease those concerns and even open the door to a deeper connection in relationships.
Premature Ejaculation
Premature ejaculation (PE) is something many couples deal with, and while it can be frustrating, it's definitely something you can work on together. If you or your partner is struggling with it, it might bring up feelings of anxiety or even strain the relationship, but the good news is, there are real solutions. By understanding what’s behind it and trying a few practical steps, you can improve your intimacy and strengthen your connection as a couple.
Counseling vs. Coaching: Which Do I Need?
If you’re looking to strengthen your marriage, you might be wondering whether coaching or counseling is the right choice. It’s a common question—and an important one. Both coaching and counseling can be incredibly helpful, but they work in different ways. The key is figuring out which one meets your current needs and helps you and your spouse build the Christ-centered marriage you’re aiming for.
So, what’s the difference between the two? How do you decide which is right for you? Let’s break it down and get to the heart of the matter.
Key Factors in Success Therapy and Coaching
When it comes to improving your marriage, you may wonder what really makes a difference in coaching. There’s no shortage of advice, but what factors truly lead to positive outcomes in coaching? It turns out, there are a few key elements that can make all the difference. And, whether you're struggling with conflict or just want to strengthen your bond, knowing these factors can give you hope and a fresh outlook for your relationship.
The Power of Forgiveness in Marriage
So, why is forgiveness so crucial in a marriage? First, let’s be real—nobody can meet all our expectations. We all make mistakes, sometimes unintentionally, and sometimes when emotions get the best of us. In marriage, it’s not about if your spouse will mess up, but when. And when they do, how will you respond?
Why Christians shouldn’t see Non-Christian Counselors or Coaches
When you’re facing challenges in your marriage, it’s natural to seek help. But as Christians, it’s important to be mindful of where that help comes from. Marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God, and how you approach the issues in your marriage should align with the beliefs and values that you hold dear. That’s why, as a Christian couple, you might want to think twice before going to a non-Christian therapist or coach.
How Our Actions Impact Each Other
Have you ever noticed how your mood can completely change based on how your spouse treats you? Or how a kind word from you can transform their day? That’s not just a coincidence—it’s a concept called reciprocal determinism. It’s a bit of a mouthful, I know, but stick with me; it’s easier (and more important) than it sounds!
Insurance for Therapy? Think Again
We know therapy works. What is less clear is how to pay for it. For those of us with insurance, it seems logical that we would use it for therapy. But that isn’t always the best idea. We’ve put together the top 9 reasons why you shouldn’t use insurance to pay for mental health treatment.
Marriage As Discipleship
Marriage is so much more than a simple union of two individuals; it is a sacred journey that profoundly influences the spiritual growth of Christian husbands and wives. As a cornerstone for discipleship and mutual support, marriage offers an opportunity like no other relationship for faith and marriage to thrive.
Why I Don’t Accept Insurance
Using insurance for counseling or psychotherapy is bad for the client and it is bad for the therapist. Insurance companies are not looking out for the best interests of their policyholders. They are in the business of making money.