Many men live under the weight of performance: “How much can I achieve? How well can I provide?” But when leadership is disconnected from care, the home becomes a place of tension, distance, or duty—not of life. Without tenderness, leadership becomes lonely. Without empathy, authority feels hollow. This blog post invites you to move beneath the surface of cultural expectations and into the heart of the gospel, where true headship is measured not by control but by devotion.